Indecisiveness of a decision

Sometimes when bad things happen, we do tend to act quickly and make a conclusion based on the facts that we have. However, sometimes our hearts are not in sync with the mind. "No, this is not the conclusion that I wanted." And so we return back to looking back at the facts to see if we can conclude it differently, in a way that suits our hearts better.

In a way, it is good to reflect back before making a conclusion, to see that we haven't make a hasty decision in a rush. But often we keep looking at the same facts over and over again, wishing if only it is not so, if only it is like this, hoping to that the conclusion we made can be changed. And because we keep going back and forth, we become indecisive and it makes it hard to let go.

Sometimes, we just have to decide whether it is the best solution, even if it contradicts our hearts. Does it make it right? Well, to tell the truth, there is no right and wrong in certain issues. There are only difference in opinion and pros and cons in each decision.